Commitmentphobic Man

Assalamualaikum....

It has been my worst month of 2008...and i'm slowly getting back on my track..lets keep the record straight ok..i'm in a mess these few weeks and my life is freaking sucks at these moment....i have a week to get back my so called 'normal life'!!i don't care what have i missed!!! just don't give a damn...life goes on honey!!Whoever can't get into my ride i'm happy to see you go...at the end of the day its about 'trust'...i'm not stupid to believe all your jokes!!i'm 34 yrs old for God sake!!Stop fooling around!!

i wanna talk about a commitmentphobic man. I've met a few of them and these kinda of man who always tells you how lonely and sad their life are. They will tell you all the grandmother's stories and how they wanted to start a family with you!! BUT!!! there is a BIG BUT here!! Unfortunately they are only a story teller and they are actually a commitmentphobic man!!Believe me whatever they said they didn't mean it!! If you started to believe them and give your full attention to their life and think that you could fit into their lonely life and you are wrong!! and they will make u like a fool to believe them coz they are so comfortable of what they are now!! They don't need you!!Why is that? because they are Commitmentphobic Man!!! They want you to be around but they don't want to love you...coz if they fall in love with you it will create a commitment and it will scared the hell of them.Such a Loser!! Don't you think?

Why is it that a man can be so amazing, affectionate, and share a strong 'connection' with you at first? But then is unable to stay close and loving with you when it comes to a real, lasting, committed relationship?

Have you ever met a man who you felt a strong connection with, but something else inside told you he wouldn't be 'good' for you in the long run? But you moved forward with him in spite of the clear signs of danger you saw in him?

Maybe you opened up anyway and fell into a relationship with him, perhaps for months, or even years. But eventually everything fell apart the way you thought it would, and that's when it dawned on you that your very first gut reaction was right.

This song goes to all Commitmentphobic Man..

Selamat Tinggal - Nikki

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