Relationships are tricky business...

Assalamualaikum,

Sihat? Pekabar? Aku tengah sakit perut ni..biasalaa aunty rose datang daa...hahahaha..

Well, Alhamdulilah...aku rasa happy bila dapat call dari makcik aku dari Mekah!!Alhamdulilah...dia dah sampaikan salam aku pada Rasullulah, berdoa di atas Jabal Rahmah, dan sebut nama aku di hadapan Kaabah!! Ya Allah..kau jemputlah aku kembali ke rumah Mu YA Allah!!!Aminnnnn....

Aku dah planned nak ke Umrah insyallah March next year...Lagi cepat lagi bagus...hehehehehe...ni semua bergantung pada rezeki..Ayah aku dok tanya2 mcm nak sponsor je...hahahhaahaa....kalau orang nak bagi aku tak tolak!!Tapi kalau dia nak bawak aku gi buat Haji 2010 ni lagi baguss!!!!insyallah..

oklah back to the business....i'm here to talk about relationships!!i'm 34 and i'm totally sick of doing the dating game and starts to know new people in my dating life!! but i don't have a choice and i have to do it until i found my future husband or my new guy friends...and this year alone i've met a few of them and some of them are nice , some of them are so mean, and some of them are fun!!

The first most common reason why people tend to get insecure and back off during the early stages of dating is the fact that they might not receive a phone call/SMS as promised. If you are on a date with someone and you are the one who says you are going to call/sms, then make sure to make that phone call/sms. If you say you're going to call/sms in a day or two but call/sms after a week instead, it could give out the signal that you are not very interested.

At the end of all those dating games i've found that relationships are tricky business. It does not pay to enter in them unless you are yourself. You should not compromise on your identity. If you can be accepted for the way you are , your likes and dislikes, the way you dress, even your love for something boring, then you will have a lot better chance of the relationship growing and enduring. Accepting differences is important too. Don't go into a relationship hoping to change someone, and most importantly be yourself. That will help you grow as an individual while enriching your relationship.

*sigh*

Penat ekk!!i think i did my best in everything including starting a relationship.... and i should call it off for now ...at least for this 1 and a half month before i reached 35 on 1st January 2009!! Yess!! i'm gong to be 35 baby!!! i'm not worried at all!!I'm sure 2009 will bring me a lot of joy and happinesss..insyallah!! Do a lot of Doa and hopefully insyallah i can perform my 2nd Umrah!!! amin...amin...amin....and starts 2009 with 'another' new spirits!!!!! ahahahahaha.... new resolutions??? naahhh!!!! i always come out with a lot of resolutions every months!!! ahahahahhahaaa....

So happy its weekend again...and hope you guys have a blesssing weekend yach!!!! wasalam!!!!



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