Hoping against HOPE!!

"How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet.

Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. Just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. It is almost as if you both can occupy each other's bodies with complete trust and harmony. That to me is love.

But its so different now.... i don't know what goes wrong... i guess this is not LOVE..this is something that i don't know what...

There is much truth to the statement that timing is everything. We aren't always meant to be or do the things we want at exactly the time we think we should. Sometimes life has other plans for us. Having said that, limbo is not a very comfortable place for many of us. I think in we need to assess exactly what stage of a relationship we were in and where the possibility of a relationship could be. Did i ever think he is serious when he says he eventually wants a relationship, or am i just his comfort zone since we know each other so well? It is critical at this stage to objectively look at these things. i Don't let feelings of emotion blind me to what may really be happening. My heart is an important part of me and its well-being should be a high priority.

Moral of the story is....Don't ever waste your time with someone who doesn't feel the same way...